The Best Gift You Can Give Yourself (And Everyone Around You)

“We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and our adventure to discover our own special light."
- Mary Dunbar

Introduction:

Do you know what’s the best gift you can give to yourself?

It’s a gift that is so valuable it not only benefits you, everyone else in your life benefits too.

The gift I’m talking about is a healthy, happy, fulfilled you – becoming the best version of yourself you can possibly be.

It’s allowing you to connect with who you really are and bring that energy into the world, because that’s when everyone benefits.

This is not something you take a course in and then you’re done, and it’s not something that happens overnight. It’s a process.

People often tell me proudly that they took a course in something like personal growth, or boundary setting, increasing confidence, or something else.

The thinking is that you take a course or read a book and you suddenly ‘get it’.

Learning how to reconnect with yourself so you become the happiest, most fulfilled version of yourself you can be is not something that just happens. It is an ongoing process.

It’s about becoming, rather than doing. Learning how to BE, rather than having more stuff to do.

It’s about the little things you do every single day, and what you’re willing to learn about yourself from every relationship, every experience, every situation.

Achieving Breakthroughs

People are usually looking for THE BREAKTHROUGH that will make all the difference.

Instead of looking for the breakthrough you think you need, it’s more helpful to open yourself up to be able to receive breakthroughs each and every day.

People often ask me what my big inner breakthrough was that made me go from insecure, with no sense of purpose in life, and so lacking in self-confidence that I was terrified of speaking in front of a group of people. They are usually surprised to hear that there was no single breakthrough. There have been many breakthroughs, and they continue to come on a daily or weekly basis, because I’m open to them and I’m inviting them.

I had a breakthrough just this last weekend related to ‘rejection.’ When you feel rejected as a child, it’s highly likely you will experience a pattern of rejection throughout your life, which has been the case for me. The breakthrough I received was a new awareness of just how much this has shown up for me, and especially in how many ways I have rejected myself.

Even though I completely embrace self-care and I have come such a long way in reconnecting with my true self and finding my purpose, I realized the many small and often seemingly insignificant ways rejection still shows up for me.

This new awareness is truly something to celebrate. I know that because it has come into my awareness, I am ready to release it. I don’t need this pattern in my life anymore. That’s a breakthrough to truly celebrate.

This breakthrough came about, as all breakthroughs do, because of my daily focus on self-awareness, and my willingness to face my fears, conditioned beliefs, stored trauma and emotions that don’t serve me.

Focus on Inner Mastery

Instead of looking for the breakthrough that will make everything o.k., dedicate yourself to inner (energy) mastery.

This isn’t about ignoring everything you have to do, or the challenges you are facing, or the world is facing. Instead, it’s about becoming more aware, daily, as you live your life.

Focus on questions like:

• How you feel – what feels good and what doesn’t?

• What are you tolerating?

• What can you learn from any difficult relationships?

• What can you learn from any challenging situations?

• How are your thoughts either supporting or sabotaging you?

• If you feel stuck, why is that?

• If you feel you’re meant for more, what does that mean to you?

• What can you do to take care of yourself mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually?

• What do you really, really, really want?

Once you start living with this level of awareness and intention, you will never want to go back. You’ll wonder how you were able to function any other way.

The awareness you receive will lead to breakthroughs, which will lead to you being able to release what doesn’t serve you and that in turn will lead to alignment and inner (energy) mastery.

That’s when you really start living.

This is the best gift you can give to yourself, and those around you, which will send positive ripples out into the world.

This isn’t about forcing yourself to be positive, it’s about learning who you really are and then allowing yourself to be that. It’s really that simple.

Are you ready to learn how to do that? Are you ready to receive daily breakthroughs, rather than looking for the one big breakthrough that isn’t coming?

Take Action

If you’re ready, then so am I – I’m here to guide you until you achieve inner mastery. This is how you take your power back, and this is how you bring who you really are into the world, which is exactly what’s needed.

My new ‘Unstoppable for Life’ Program is starting in September and I’m looking for 5 participants to be the founding members of the program. As one of the 5 founding members you will benefit from very special pricing, lifetime access, and become part of a transformational journey designed to help you live with freedom, clarity, energy, and purpose.

For those who are interested, please schedule a conversation with me here. The call is for information purposes only; the program is not ready to enroll participants just yet. It is very important that you and I agree on whether this is the right option for you. I’m being very particular about who is invited into the program.

Are you willing to give yourself the gift of rediscovering and reconnecting with your true self?

More Resources

If you're not quite ready for major inner shifts, here are some other ways to get started:

1. Take my free Personal Energy Assessment to see where your energy is most affected, and what you can do to realign. After taking the Personal Energy Assessment, go through the short course that goes with the Assessment (you’ll be sent a link after completing the assessment).

2. Join my (free) Harmony Inside & Out Private membership group or the monthly (paid) Powerful Breakthroughs group – you’ll find all the details here.

3. Come to one of my monthly Group Coaching/Q&A calls, $50 for non-members, $25 for Harmony Inside & Out members and free for Powerful Breakthrough Group Members.

4. Attend one of my monthly masterclasses, or watch a replay ($97 for non-members, $47 for Harmony Inside & Out members, and free for Powerful Breakthrough Group members. (Make sure you're on my mailing list to receive registration links if you're not a group member).

5. Schedule a complimentary call with me to discuss your specific situation and evaluate the next ideal steps for you to make progress. Schedule here.

The most important thing is to take action. The worst thing you can do is nothing

I guide you to clarity, breakthroughs and practical solutions that lead to the positive change you want. Real solutions, real results. Start with a free Personal Energy Assessment, and see what's possible for you.